deconstruction

  • People Pleaser

    “People pleaser”—I’ve worn this title for too long.  In fact, eventually, it began to feel less like a title and more like an identity.  I mean, was that really such a bad thing? The mixed messaging was maddening. One one… Continue reading

    People Pleaser
  • In His Light

    Sometimes I wonder if the work of reconstruction will ever be complete. I thought I had much of it worked through until certain conversations, books I read, or sound bites I heard lead me to question and dive even deeper.… Continue reading

    In His Light
  • Finding Faith

    Several months ago I asked my friends on Instagram for blog post ideas. One suggestion that came through said this… “What did it look like for you personally finding out what you believe in for yourself aside from everyone else/any… Continue reading

    Finding Faith
  • To Those Who Left

    Why? Why did it have to happen this way? Did you have it wrong all along? Did you ever really hear His voice? Did you waste all those years? Did they care about you at all? What was real—was any… Continue reading

    To Those Who Left
  • Testimony

    Have you ever been told to be careful because you wouldn’t want to hurt your ‘testimony’?  “Be careful of the appearance of evil.”  “Be careful of your sin struggle being openly visible.” “Be careful of your apparel being too worldly.” … Continue reading

    Testimony